Find someone in their late 30's early 40's like Tornado that lives nearby (I only say nearby so they can run the computer). Befriend this person, if you can make sure they don't have a tractor or are not "hands on". Trade computer work for tractor work, you'll be amazed at how much easier that person will make your computer life.
I don't mind computers, I can do most of it myself if need be (ironically my wife is in IT and I'm the one that begins troubleshooting our computer at home), however, I have a buddy that knows the ins and outs of computers. He also likes to remodel his house and needs help, so we have a good system going.