So here's where I am and am interested in the input of the smart folks on the board that have taught me a lot. All the forks are 42" which seems like a sweet spot from what I can tell.
Land Pride PFL2042 - $825 too much, 330#
Blue Diamond - $785 too much
Everything Attachments - $647, will lift 2200#, weigh only 238#, forks are 3"x1 1/8", back ordered: 4-8 weeks
https://www.everythingattachments.com/ProductDetails.asp?ProductCode=ETA%2DSCPF%2D42
Construction Attachments - $739, will lift 1800#, weigh only 220#, forks are 3"x1", back ordered: 2-4 weeks
https://www.everythingattachments.com/42-Inch-Compact-Tractor-Pallet-Forks-p/cal-1pfcmp42.htm#thereviews
Titan - $535, will lift 4000#, weigh 320#, forks are 4"x1 1/4", can put hay spear on
https://www.ebay.com/itm/Titan-42-Pallet-Fork-Attachment-Tractor-Kubota-Holland-Skid-Steer-Quick-tach/361498960859?epid=1900559164&hash=item542b0463db:g:e~0AAOSwz~paCyZI#rwid
Titan - $450, will lift 3000#, weighs 295#, Comes with receiver hitch for moving trailers
https://www.palletforks.com/titan-skid-steer-42-pallet-fork-trailer-hitch-attachment.html
MTL Attachments - $449 (would go and pick up), will lift 2500#, weighs 250#
https://www.ebay.com/itm/162923588209?ViewItem=&item=162923588209
Of course its a balancing act of price and load capacity as I'd like to lift as much as I could. Its hard to tell about the quality of the welds, etc. from looking at a picture on the internet. All of these should outlift what I can with my L3200 based on the great info you guys provided me before so I'm thinking lighter forks might be the best. Everything Attachments looks like a possibility but has a 4-8 week wait, although I'm not in a great hurry. The MTL looks kind of bare bones from the picture to me. Having said that, one of the Titans looks like a possibility. We use square bales for the horses so the hay spear is not a big attraction but the receiver hitch would be a nice extra. Of course that one doesn't have a top "cage" to keep stuff from sliding backwards.
Anyway...suggestions and observations are welcome! I'll let you know what I decide and what the results are after I get them and get a chance to use them.