EA makes a grapple for the BX that is 150lbsI too would like a grapple for my BX23S. It has the 3rd function kit already installed. I just can't see paying that much for the grapple. Any suggestions-I know the after market china ones are built different but price is a bigger concern vs getting bent up.
https://www.everythingattachments.com/Root-Rake-Grapple-For-Kubota-BX-p/ea-bx-wrrg.htm
I bought the EA Wicked 55 for B2650 - so far it is solid and handles what I have used it for, I haven't done too much but it looks cool on the front too