Education, specifically self improvement, self teaching, and reading, is something that's always been close to my heart. Im in my 30's so a bit younger that most around this forum I believe. I did about half my schooling in private christian schools, and half in public. All of my highschool was in public school. It was the worst 4 years of my life. Some areas in the country have good public schools, but many areas its down right abysmal. I honestly dont feel I learned much of anything in high school that I either didn't already know, or taught myself during those years. Every day of school was just a circus. Kids showing out, fighting, horseplaying, teachers unable to control the class room. It didnt feel like school at all to me but just a mad house most of the time, with only a very few exceptions. I have not had any kids of my own yet, but if I do, they will 100% go to a private school, and I will be very involved in their education.
I side with those who say that most all of our problems start at HOME. We do not have parents invested in their kids as much these days. Kids these days are connected to the outside world, internet, social media, more than they are with mom and dad under their own roof. Its a culmination of things that all add up to worse and worse outcomes for kids. One thing too that has changed a lot in the past 100 or 150 years is the rise of the career woman. Do not mistake me - im not against women working and having a career as good as any man, but when BOTH parents are working full time jobs, I think the end result is less involvement with the kids, less education in the home. When you look back at history, mothers were typically the glue in the home. Many kids recieved tremendous amounts of their education from mother. Moms were with their kids, nurturing their kids, and drilling good character and morals into them. Times have changed though. You still see a lot of great kids though, a lot of smart kids with great morals and manners, and in most of those cases you see they have a strong connection to their parents - in other words - when parents are involved in the actual raising of their kids and not taking a back seat, it makes a huge difference. Parents take a back seat a lot today. Kids are raised on social media, the internet. Kids are far far more socially connected than they used to be. So many outside influences at such a young age. I admire when I see parents who refuse to buy their kids a smart phone until they are well into their teenage years. I see so many kids these days 10, 11, 12 years old with a smartphone already. It just sets up so many potential problems I think.
We need to push for school choice legislation. Allow parents to send their kids to ANY school of their choice. That should be the right of any parent - to pick their kids schooling. If I ever have a child, they will NOT go to public schools, I dont care what I have to do to pay for a good school I would do it. Education is so so important. Knowledge truly is power, and there is NO substitute for it. I would also push my kid to read a lot of books. If you can get a kid to start reading early, and get them into books, it will make a world of difference I feel.