BACK IN BUSINESS!!!
I finally solved the problem. I found several of the little metal pieces inside the quick couplers that had become dislodged in the course of my fiddling with them. Some have a solid bar to support the spring, others have three prongs on them. The ones with the single bar seem to move easily when removed and taken apart as I did. They must be reassembled very carefully. When they are not in perfect location, reconnecting the quick coupler will damage the three prong ones, they are soft and will bend into a cup shape and will not open the caps enough to allow oil flow. After hours of hunting and straightening and careful reinstallation, I got it back together and operating perfectly. My only cost was one male connector for $28.00, a roll of teflon tape, a gallon of oil and an eighty mile trip to get the part.
If you ever have this problem, you must take apart both halves of the coupler to make sure all the spring support pieces are properly aligned. This can somtimes be checked by pushing on the pin inside the coupler to feel if it moves freely. As I have said before, I ain't a mechanic but if I think about a problem long enough I sometimes get lucky as this time. I was beginning to think I would have to take the tractor to the dealer to get it fixed.