No codes in Douglas county:Not quite correct. I went looking to keep some contractors honest. Most counties have no county codes; but follow Missouri State building codes. Missouri follows ASTM blah blah blah codes.
That being said, out here no one pulls out a bureaucrat for every little bit of work; or lack thereof.
I did read somewhere the state recommends that architects follow the latest IBC when designing.
Not sure where you are but, we have 20 acres, neighbors have 20, 7, 5, 8, 6.6Around here is a minimum 25 acre zone per residence/farm. Might be because this is the Mark Twain Forest area and they don't want apartments and 7-11s.