Did you see the old clutch before you had agreed to buy the 2150.
When i rebuilt my 71000hst i made a point of checking the clutch whilst i had the whole machine stripped down, it had covered 800 odd hours and was the original unit, in general it was in excellent condition with no issus to the splined centre fitting, also no issues with the drive shaft or bushes.
I did later find out the HST pump was a bin job as the splined shaft on the pump was allmost rounded off due to the coupling between the drive shaft and the hst pump had not been checked and was slowly getting looser until it had allmost worn down the shaft splines, thus causing a lot of slack in the drive , only the locating pin was keeping things together
But , the clutch end of the shaft was fine, maybe you have a similar issue along the drive shaft train or at the coupling on the HST pump causing a backlash effect at the clutch plate and on the splines.
Due to the way the driveshaft slides into the plate and then into a bush in the crankshaft i cant see why it would normally be able to wear down as you mention, unless the plate wasnt aligned properly or similar, i think you may need to check the whole drive train and eliminate parts as you go.
Good luck & hope you get it sorted , sorry cant be of any more help to you on this as i'm no expert, just my experience from problem i had with my own HST.
PS, this is another example of why i prefer manual over HST, just my opinion for record..