Good luck with your decision I think you have it narrowed down well.
FWIW like you I have a number of trails to maintain, rocks and downed trees to move, a couple small fields to bush hog once or twice a year, snow removal, and sometimes finish mow. I foresee no heavy ground engaging work.
After much research and reading this forum I decided that 26 hp would be enough and gets me away from DPF and potential long term reliability issues. This size will do most everything a much larger tractor can just not as fast..... and spending a little extra time on my tractor was not going to be a "negative"
I narrowed my choice to a B2650 or L2501 and either would suit my needs but ended up with the 2650 because I liked some of the premium features not on the L, plus the center PTO for a mid mount mower and possible front snow blower in the future.
This tractor has done everything I need it to, it runs the 72" mmm and my old 5' bush hog just fine. I went with the light duty 60" bucket which the tractor lifts even full of gravel or dirt. I have been toying with the idea of a separate 54" bucket with a tooth bar for digging though. The grapple is really useful for moving brush, tree trunks, rocks, grubbing out shrubs, etc.
Compared to my previous B7500 which was smaller and with 21 hp the B2560 is more capable in every way and it's larger engine is actually even smoother. It seems just as easy on fuel as well.
The biggest challenge for it so far is there were two rocks sticking up maybe 8" in a field that I was concerned I'd hit when bush hogging so I went to work on them. This is the smaller of the two and seemed about the limit it would pick up. The other larger one it couldn't completely lift however I was able to move it off the field by rolling it, basically just tipping it over and over.