OK, so then something is wrong with mine. When I engage the PTO with the mmm attached, there is no way for me to engage it faster or slower. The speed of the lever makes no difference. Once it engages it slows the engine down a bit and blows black smoke for a second. There is no way to engage it any slower no matter how slow I move the lever.
Perfectly normal operation. The wet pack is doing exactly what it's designed to do.
My big tractors do the same thing when I engage the pto. I always engage just above an idle and they both blow a little smoke.
You are looking for an issue that don't exist.
Again, the lever has no bearing on how fast or slow the pack locks up. That is controlled by the proportioning valve.
If you think it's an issue, have an authorized dealer check the lock up pressure and adjust accordingly but it takes special tools and is not something you can fiddle with, which is why I won't tell you where it is. Fiddling with it can cause premature pack failure. The lock up pressure is very specific. If the pack fails it entails splitting the tractor to access it.
Now if you had a WSM you'd know where the valve is and what the pressure needs to be but it still takes special tools to read and set it.
The inertia of getting any implement moving is going to cause the engine to slow down and blow some smoke, unless you have a Tier 4 final engine, in that case the 'smoke (particulates) wind up in the DPF instead, to get roasted during a regen cycle.