Well, I've been looking/researching for a few years now. Reading this and other forums, visiting dealers, and talking to other tractor owners.
I have 10+ acres of mostly woods, with over a half mile of drive/private gravel road that gets pretty beat up when it gets wet. I've been fixing the road up with my ATV trailer and shovels, which gets old real fast (especially as I get old
. I eventually figured out that a grading scraper (Land Plane) is the right tool for maintaining a smooth road.
As far as size, bigger is better for ground engagement, so the BX was out. the B series might have worked, but the L is much heavier for similar HP, which made that choice clear. I need to get around in the forest, so I think a Grand L would be too big (and out of my budget as well). And, honestly, I wanted a 'real' tractor, not one that would easily be confused with a lawn mower.
Regarding the backhoe, I've always wanted one for digging out stumps, moving rocks, trenching, and any number of other jobs. Probably could do without it (and almost did), but I figured I get it now or probably never.
I also got a 48" grapple for clearing the underbrush and downed trees in the woods, which is pretty thick. Based on other folks experience, I think I'm going to use the grapple a lot.
Many thanks to the posters on this and other tractor forums. I felt like a much more informed buyer with your help.