Hello boss: I question your statement that the rear 3 point stuff is designed for going forward. I also question causing damage going backwards. One has to assume that the operators of the tractors will do a lot of crazy things so that the possibility of getting sued for an inadequate product will come along. So sufficient beef is built into most of these (my observation as an engineer) that you can get away with almost anything and not cause damage. People will add big extra weights to get extra traction, extend the front end loader to reach all sorts of places, maybe act as a crane, etc. So as to the rear blade blade going backwards, if that were a problem, I'd bet over half the users of this forum would be agreeing. So far no comments from them in that regard to my knowledge.
I take these question something like a doctor father in law I once had. I helped him change a tire and he required that one had to keep track of each nut that came off the wheel studs to go back on the same places. Also, required that a burlap bag be placed on the ground for keeping the tire irons from getting any nicks. Even didn't want me to fully cut thru a wire with a wire cutter for fear of the cutting edges getting dull if they clicked together. So, these cautions can go to extremes, but certainly not for tractors. By the way that sort of fussyness caused old "Doc" to be one of the best doctors for figuring out the causes of an illness.