I have one on mine and I dont have problem 1 with it. The cut is fine for my stuff and I cut anything thats inthe way from wild roses to small branches it grind things up OK. Just remember keep your blades sharp the sharper the blade the finer the cut. I do about a 2 acer field with it as well as around the house, no worries! As far as working with the FEL, I think it give you a couple hundred more pounds to keep you up right, the drive over is nice I guess but still a PIA for a fat crippled old man at least you dont have to lug and tug it from under the tractor. But you still have to aline the PTO shaft and line the pins up ,but over all its better than before.
And yes you can stand on it to get up and down. Even do that on the BX. Just remember the deck hangs, the wheels are to keep you from scalping the ground, they are not meant to take the weight of the deck. If you do run the wheels down to take the weight of the deck the centers wear out very fast and you will be buying new wheels. I couldnt explain to me wife the it hangs she had to have it on the ground, hence I knw about buying replacement wheels