Did that valve come off an L35, or a different model?
I don't know of a way to test the relief valve except on the tractor. You could put a gauge on the pump hose at the valve, start the tractor briefly, and see what pressure develops.
MOST IMPORTANT Make sure you don't have the tank and power beyond hoses reversed. The tank hose port is toward the tractor front and goes to a port on the transmission housing, I think. The power beyond hose comes off the back of the valve and goes to the backhoe.
The tank passage, where your valve broke out, is designed for low pressure, 500 psi max. You can see the casting is relatively thin there. Obviously, it can withstand more, but if the hose is blocked, it could see around 5000 psi with the relief valve operating correctly.
This could have happened even with the relief valve operating properly. And the backhoe hoses should be connected together when the backhoe is removed to prevent deadheading the pump against the relief. But I don't think that would have broken your valve. The only way I can see this happening is that the tank connection was plugged somehow.
yes the valve came off an L35. I’ll double checked that those weren’t reversed and they weren’t unless I made a mistake I thought they were different fitting like the PB has a strait fitting and hose had a 90 and the one to the rank had a 90 fitting and a strait on the hose. I’ll check that the hose one to the tank is not plugged somehow. I was doing more then I should have trying to roll the bucket back maybe it exerted a bunch of pressure quick somehow, or that’s how it seemed.