JohnDB,
I have never seen a tandem pump used for just a loader.
Your description is for a 2 stage pump, and again I've never seen one of them used on a tractor for any use.
Tandem pumps are used when higher flow is desired like to run a hydraulic motor driven device, not higher pressures.
Tractors use tandem pumps to use one pump section to run the loader and a second pump section to run PS and other hydraulic operations.
Newer joystick loader valves typically have anti reverse feedback valves built right into there designs so that dual operations are fine.
You would have to have a really weak / defective pump to have the loader do what you describe, one operation negatively affecting another operation.
I have a B7100 with a loader running off the stock pump, little on the slower side, one because I used 2 1/2" cylinders and 2 its a small pump, but it has no negative operations and the loader is strong enough that it will pick up the entire tractor.