59 Years Ago.....

Magicman

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59 years ago today, Pat and I began our journey to forever....together.

Just as a sorta introduction to my early life, I left home in July '61 at age 17 never to live at home again. There was not a problem except my folks could not afford to support me anymore so I had to learn to fend for myself. I went to work for Southern Bell Telephone Company in October, '62, but when your pay is only $60 per week, you have no money. This redneck was one broke dude, but I had a job.

I met Pat on the CB radio around the 1st of January, '63 and somehow found out that her birthday was January 13th. No way could I ask her out before her birthday because then I would have to buy her a birthday present. Did I mention that I had no money Anyway, I probably made myself a nuisance around her place. Heck, they had food, so sometimes I got invited for supper.

We continued to see each other until toward the end of March when her Dad decided that he had seen enough of me. My instructions were to not come back. Pat called me at work Monday morning and we decided over the phone to get married that Friday, the 29th of March. That week we gathered birth certificates, blood tests, and whatever else that we thought we needed to prove our age and get married. Mississippi's marriage laws were too strict, so we decided to hop over to Alabama.

I picked her up from her work Friday morning and away we went in a 1959 Pink Edsel Convertible. I had been living in a rooming/boarding house and had no apartment, so my friend Frank, agreed to find us a place before we got back Saturday afternoon. Since my parents had never met Pat, we would go there Saturday morning for an introduction. Everything went off as planned. We got back to Jackson, found Frank who took us to our apartment, and the rest is kinda history. Ten months later we were parents.

The first piece of mail that arrived after we got married came on Wednesday. It was a bounced $10 check from the city of Jackson for the $10 water deposit. Did I mention that I was broke and had no money??
 
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Great story. Happy Anniversary to you both!
And now you own tractors so probably still don't have money. :LOL:
 
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59 years ago today, Pat and I began our journey to forever....together.

Just as a sorta introduction to my early life, I left home in July '61 at age 17 never to live at home again. There was not a problem except my folks could not afford to support me anymore so I had to learn to fend for myself. I went to work for Southern Bell Telephone Company in October, '62, but when your pay is only $60 per week, you have no money. This redneck was one broke dude, but I had a job.

I met Pat on the CB radio around the 1st of January, '63 and somehow found out that her birthday was January 13th. No way could I ask her out before her birthday because then I would have to buy her a birthday present. Did I mention that I had no money Anyway, I probably made myself a nuisance around her place. Heck, they had food, so sometimes I got invited for supper.

We continued to see each other until toward the end of March when her Dad decided that he had seen enough of me. My instructions were to not come back. Pat called me at work Monday morning and we decided over the phone to get married that Friday, the 29th of March. That week we gathered birth certificates, blood tests, and whatever else that we thought we needed to prove our age and get married. Mississippi's marriage laws were too strict, so we decided to hop over to Alabama.

I picked her up from her work Friday morning and away we went in a 1959 Pink Edsel Convertible. I had been living in a rooming/boarding house and had no apartment, so my friend Frank, agreed to find us a place before we got back Saturday afternoon. Since my parents had never met Pat, we would go there Saturday morning for an introduction. Everything went off as planned. We got back to Jackson, found Frank who took us to our apartment, and the rest is kinda history. Ten months later we were parents.

The first piece of mail that arrived after we got married came on Wednesday. It was a bounced $10 check from the city of Jackson for the $10 water deposit. Did I mention that I was broke and had no money??
Happy anniversary, from a fellow Traveling Man!
 

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Ditto. Great story. Happy anniversary.
 

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love your story. My wife and I tied the knot when we had no possessions except some clothes on our backs essentially.

No prenuptial agreements needed! LOL

Always think joining with someone when each has nothing, and living life to together and seeing what it brings, is a gift worth having. Only 50 years for us this June...
 

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Happy anniversary to you both! Congrats!!
 

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Isn't it amazing what becomes of people who start with nothing and become who they are by providing for themselves? The trials of life form the person, and the more trials the greater the character building and more valuable they become!

Congratulations!!
 

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We celebrated with lunch today.
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A Garden Salad and
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Blackened Redfish with a Seafood Sauce and a Baked Sweet Potato. The meal cost more that my weekly pay was 59 years ago. Yes guys and girls, we are blessed beyond measure.

I took off from sawmilling today but I plan to get a half day in tomorrow before the stormy weather gets here.
 
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Congratulations on such a long journey together!
 

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Congratulations!

The Lord has blessed you.

A milestone to be proud of......A tip of the hat and a raise of the glass to you both.