Maybe not cheaply, but most anything can be done with the right hardware and knowledge. I'm a retired electrical engineer who spent 40+ years in heavy industry and military process applications, most of which had a LOT of hydraulics, so I had no choice but to learn just a bit about the subject. I haven't looked at the entire hydraulics diagrams of my tractor yet, but eventually I will. I can't help thinking a stacked banjo to supply pressure to the grapple valve, and a separate RTT line, or certainly one that parallels the loader spool, would work better than what is accepted as the right way. In fact, the pressure line (short hard pipe) that originally went to the loader valve is removed to install a banjo for the Summit valve, then the return line is piped back to the loader spool input where the original P line was connected. I installed my kit personally, and I know what I put on it, and still have the OE connector for the loader. I have seen other kits that come with two banjos and an adapter that just replaces the connection between the transmission and the loader valve so that the pressure and tank lines for the 3rd function parallel the loader valve. Can't remember where, and it may not have been a Kubota part, but pretty sure I was wishing I had one. I do remember price was part of the decision making process, but won't hazard a guess what the difference was. "Can't be done" is not the same as "Can't afford to do it."
Sometimes, I'm just wishing out loud for a solution that perhaps someone here already has or tried using less expensive parts. Do we just simply accept "It hasn't been done before"? Never in my life have I accepted that as an answer. That was the challenge of my career that I loved. My favorite phrase was "Hol' muh beer, hide in the bushes, and watchiss!" I'm basically an overeducated redneck. I don't like reinventing a wheel, but maybe upgrading the tires isn't a bad idea. "It can't be done" is not in my vocabulary.