OK, but I really meant actual "load testing" as in putting on a heater type current measuring device attached such as:
MotoMaster Battery Tester, 100-Amp Load, 6V/12V | Canadian Tire
The cranking you did may reveal SOME issues but isn't exactly the same.
The same can be said for a plain old voltmeter. You could measure 12.7VDC at rest
at the battery, but once you get cranking it may drop way waaaay down as current load
increases.
Again, I didn't read every post, but it might sound like a poor/high resistive connection somewhere.
(not neccesarily visible or accessible.)_ First check would be ground lugs, connections to battery etc. and only once I was sure it wasn't that, would I even think about throwing money at the problem.
good luck sorting it all out OP !