What you need to do is take apart the suspension and shorten the adjustment rod an inch or so and reassemble. That will increase the spring tension. You also might want to add spacers to the underside of the rails to increase the height, exactly what I did on the OS M9 I bought last spring but I also bought a new suspension from Rural Kine when I ordered the replacement seat that D2Cat refer's to.
The replacement seat is a Grammer knock off and it's very comfortable and has a nice water resistant Cordura covering.
I think the replacement suspension from Rural King set me back an additional $150 bucks plus the cost of the seat for a 200 buck upgrade. You can get a self contained full air suspension seat base from Tractor seats.com but it will set you back about a grand. Your existing seat will bolt to any replacement suspension, seats and bases are all ISO compliant, which means the bolt patterns all match up no matter what you get.
My Cab M9 has a Grammer from the factory and I added a National Seating air ride base that I bought from a truck salvage yard. I added a small 12 volt compressor to inflate the air bag in the seat suspension fro Harbor Freight. Think my total outlay was about 150 bucks plus some install time and the National Seat base (unlike the Grammer air ride seat bases), has grease fittings.
The seat pan mount is also ISO bolt pattern so any base will mount right up
It's all 'plug and play' with seats and bases, just takes time to remove and replace them, especially in a cab model where access is limited and if you go the air ride base route, there is a power wire behind the seat on the right side that you can use to power the compressor.
The compressor I bought at HF is the 12 volt one for tire inflation and I added a cut off pressure switch so the compressor pumps up about 75psi and shuts off which is quick because the air bladder under the seat don't take much air to inflate and the compressor tucks under the seat suspension out of the way, out of sight.
Couple ways to go but I'd start with shortening the actuator rod that tensions the springs first, that is the least expensive and easiest solution.
...Conversely, you could go on a diet.....