Good comments.
My only kid was a girl. So, she had to learn how to ride motorcycles and work on stuff.
I gave my daughter my old '81 Celica to drive as her first car. After a year, I noticed I was the only one doing any routine work on it. I told her that if we upgraded her car, she would have to do the routine work on it, with my help.
She did the brakes and fluid service. Asked for a compressor to run her air tools as a wedding present. Took great car of "her" car until she ran the wheels off of it. Got a great price for it because it was immaculate.
She's 35 now and her Sorento was due an oil change. With the 5 year-old in pre-school, and the two year old mesmerized by mom picking up a car and putting it on jack stands, she changed the oil rather than having someone else do it. It was just easier and simpler. Handy skills to have. Oh, and she's hell on car salesmen. I made her sit through the whole negotiation in her "newer" college car deal and she used those skills to hammer the KIA dealer on her Sorento.
Sometimes they listen. Sometimes they don't.