This may have nothing to do with your issue but a little hydraulic system information, I am not a tractor hydraulic expert but do have 40 years in industrial Hydraulic experience, and I am intrigued with your problem.
Pressure and Flow in a hydraulic system are two different things. You can have pressure with very little flow, and flow with very little pressure. No flow, no loader or slow movement. A relief valve or directional valve leaking bye can give you flow but in the wrong place, so little work is done. Your oil can be recirculated within a system and return to tank with worn or defective components. In all my years I replaced very few directional valves do to wear or damage but many pressure relief components for erosion, broken springs, frozen poppets etc. so this is a real possibility.
If your 3 point is working I would concentrate on loader components. I would make sure all valve functions are traveling full travel and with free movement, then I would remove and disassemble the pressure relief to make sure there are no obvious defects.
Since you mentioned the hydraulics seem to bog down the next thing I would check are your hoses and quick connects especially if your hoses are old. I have seen many times the internal rubber in the hoses break down and literally plug the line, usually in lines ½” or smaller, the same effect as a severely kinked line. This condition also happened in hydraulic lines that were bent beyond there minimum bend radius causing the hose to break down prematurely. In some cases the function would work in one direction and not another, in a few no function at all. The system could create pressure but your cylinders would not move or they would creep. I have had craftspeople put hydraulic gauges on a system test points and tell me it has pressure. Try putting your gauges on the work end of your lines and see if the pressure comes up quickly when the valve is actuated, if it does not, check the pressure on the valve end and see the gauge reaction. Pressure gauges are not real reliable when looking at flow issues since they use small volumes of oil to react. You might try disconnecting both ends of your hose and pushing a stiff wire thru them to see if they are clear. Also remove and check your quick couplers for debris.
The confusing issue with your tractor is it effects all operations, it does not seem plausible there would be more than one defective hose or blown cylinder piston seals leaking all of your fluid, so what is common the valve. There could be more than one issue.