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Ever judge another person and find out later you were WAY off base? There's a lesson in this report.

I copied this off of a post on a Cattle Forum.


My local vet has many great stories. He also has a knack for retelling them. He post them on facebook occassionally and id like to pass them on to yall as he does. I hope you enjoy them as well as I have.

I never intended to share this story, but after some recent events, I think some folks might benefit from it. Rescue organizations are needed. They serve a great purpose and there are many of these people who do it for all the right reasons. There are also many people who see an animal that is in poor condition and automatically assume that the owner is neglecting or abusing the animal when that is not always the case. If you want to do animal rescue, please do so with an open mind and an open heart for both the animals and the humans involved. Do not immediately start a campaign to crucify the owner of an animal that you deem malnourished before you know the entire situation. When abuse and neglect are truly an issue, then those animals definitely need to be removed and assisted. However, there are times when that is not the case. There are many situations where the owner is doing everything they possibly can to keep their animals healthy and the only way to know that is to know the entire situation. When abuse or neglect is evident, I do not hesitate to state that because it is my job and those animals need help. Sometimes, the owners just need a little advice and assistance that they may or may not have been able to receive.

I had been in practice for approximately 5 years. I had been told by numerous people that a man was deliberately starving two horses in a community about 20 miles away. People told me that he kept the horses fastened in a dry lot and would not feed them at all. People told me that he was a long time animal abuser and said very hateful things about this old man. After hearing this story from multiple people I began to form an opinion about a man I’d never met who owned horses I’d never seen. One day a deputy from another county called me and asked me if I would meet him at the residence I’d heard so much about to examine those horses. I get involved in a lot of these situations and I don’t really enjoy that part of my job because my professional assessment can often lead to legal ramifications for the people involved. I pulled up to the residence and it was obviously the home of a very poor person. The home was an old dilapidated trailer with an overgrown yard full of weeds. The fences were shabby and I didn’t really see how they could possibly contain an animal that had any desire to escape. From a distance I saw two horses that were in poor body condition. The deputy knocked on the door and a feeble old man came to the door. He was a very pleasant person, but he was obviously in very poor health. We began to ask questions about the horses and asked if I could take a look at them. The old man walked out with us and he whistled to his horses. Both horses immediately picked their heads up and nickered a weak response as they began to make their way toward us. There were two old garbage can lids on the ground inside the fence and the horses walked directly to their respective feeding place. It was obvious that these horses had been fed in these garbage can lids, even thought their body condition would make you think they hadn’t eaten in weeks. There was absolutely no grass in the front part of the pasture which was visible from the road, but there was a fair amount of grass in the pasture behind the man’s house. The horses did have access to the grass. One of the horses stuck his head over the fence and the old man ran his fingers into the horses mouth and pulled out a big wad of grass that was packed up in the horse’s jaw. The horse was missing most of his teeth so chewing his food was a challenge. The old man laughed and said he had to get Charlie’s “chaw” out for him every day at feeding time. The horses’ feet were adequately kept. Their hair and skin was reasonable. Their manes and tails were meticulously kept free of tangles and debris. There was no evidence of lameness and neither horse had any signs of injury. There was an old barrel outside the fence and the old man reached inside and scooped out some shelled corn for both horses. Then he pulled out a loaf of bread and split it between the two garbage can lids. After a thorough exam, I didn’t find anything to suggest that the horses were in pain, but they were incredibly thin. The deputy explained that we were there because the man had been reported for animal abuse and the old man began to cry. He told us that he had been threatened and numerous people had stopped to say terrible things to him regarding his horses. He began to tell us the story of those two horses and his family. There had been three horses up until one year prior when the youngest of the three had to be euthanized. The horse had been in poor condition just like the two who were still there. When the horse became too weak to go any farther, a friend had come over and taken care of the situation for him. As he told us about these horses we learned that they were full siblings that he had raised from birth. The deceased horse had belonged to his wife. One belonged to his son, and one was his personal horse. He asked us to come inside so he could show us some pictures. He showed us multiple albums with photos of a happy family on numerous trail rides with their beautiful horses. He also showed us some pictures of his son and his horse barrel racing at some small community events in another state. He and his family had lived in another state until his son developed substance abuse issues. He and his wife spent all of the money they had accumulated to try and help their son. After they had run out of money, the only thing he knew to do was to move to an area where his son would not know anyone and hopefully would learn to live a healthier life. They bought a small place that was in poor condition because that is all they could afford and their new neighbors were not welcoming because of their appearance. A few months later, his son died due to his substance abuse issues. A short time later his wife was diagnosed with a terminal illness. The two horses in the pasture were all he had left of what had once been a happy and healthy family. He fed his horses daily and he had adequate pasture. The horses were just old. He showed us the registration papers. One horse was 37 years old and the other was 39. He had lived alone with his horses for the past several years and he knew that the horses were in poor condition. He said he had wanted to call me but he couldn’t afford to pay me and he didn’t really think his horses were sick. He was correct. Those horses weren’t sick. They were just old and needed some dietary changes. I talked to him about some dietary changes he could make to try and help the horses gain a little weight and the deputy agreed to come back by in a few days to check on them again. He asked if we were going to take his horses away and I told him that decision was not mine. After the appropriate reports were filed with the authorities, the man retained ownership of his horses. Whenever I knew I’d be in that area, I’d try to make time to stop by and check on them. Two of the times I stopped by and met the deputy as he was leaving. There would be a couple fresh bags of feed in the barrel and the garbage can lids were always licked clean. I knew that deputy was helping this old man buy better feed for his horses and he may have been assisting with regular feeding. The horses never did get fat, but they weren’t neglected. When the old man passed away, I got another call. The deputy and I did what needed to be done. I know that deputy will see this and I hope he knows how much I appreciate his compassion for both people and animals. He was a true rescuer of both humans and animals. He approached that situation with an attitude of willingness to help.
 

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Though not overly opinionated, I have found myself on occasion judging others over the years, only as I have aged, and having a strong willed partner who tells it as she sees it, have I realised that sometimes I am out of kilter in my assumptions ...enough times in fact to help me to stand back and try to get under the surface of things before locking on to the wrong conclusions.

A fine tale, thank you.:)
 

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There is a lot of that going around. They had on tv one night a story about the local humane society picking up some horses after complaints from a neighbor that they didn't have enough food and water. Horses loaded right up in a trailer, looked fat, and had shiny coats, you have to wonder what was behind that call.

On fb the other day someone had a lengthy post in which dozens of people criticized viciously someone for feeding her miniature pony chicken feed. Not one person near where she lived offered to contact her to see why. Seems like under some conditions it might not be all that bad. Even if not, a little information about pony diets would be good.
 

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Glad you shared. We had people that boarded horses on my grandparents farm. They had one horse taken from a different location because of a busy body. This busy body called the humane society. Humane society didnt check with the owners of the horse to find out the history. Said it didnt have enough food or water. The horse was on 10 acres of field with waist high grass. Had hay and nutrient supplements, as well as a fast running stream fed pond on the property. The owners had there names run through the mud by the local paper as animal abusers and had to sue to get there horse back. Then it got moved to my grandparents farm.

This horse was ancient and would fall asleep mid chew while eating. When I would go and feed the horse for them, I would have to poke the horse every now and then to wake it back up so it would finish it's sweet feed :p

The person who worked for humane society over stepped there bounds. Got fired. The humane society got sued. And the local paper had to print and run an apology on the front page for running with the story before they got the facts.
 
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A friend of mine has a very old arabian. Looks thin. He eats well. This i know for sure. People come by and mention the horse to others. He doesent like to be in a pen, so hes permitted to wander the farm freely. So many times i have heard about a do-gooder trying to catch the old arabian and put him back in a pen. Some think hes being neglected,but its exactly the opposite.
 

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A friend of mine has a very old arabian. Looks thin. He eats well. This i know for sure. People come by and mention the horse to others. He doesent like to be in a pen, so hes permitted to wander the farm freely. So many times i have heard about a do-gooder trying to catch the old arabian and put him back in a pen. Some think hes being neglected,but its exactly the opposite.
Gal I dated eons ago bread and raised Belgians. Had a mother and son that would do commando crawls under the fence and escape :p A 1200 lb horse doing a commando crawl is a site to see :D They just didnt like fences. Didn't matter that they had plenty of grass in a great big pasture. If they encountered a fence, they had to get on the other side. There's been a couple times when I would show up late for a date with one or both tied to the back bumper of my truck. Got to the point I carried a couple leads and a pail of sweet feed in the tool box to make it easier to catch them.
 

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I do a lot of Wolf and Wolfdog, and Dog rescues.
I've seen some things that just make you hate people, but I've also been on the other side of things, and had people accuse me of mistreating my animals...NOT, I care for all the ones in my possession to the best of my ability, and when my ability is not good enough I get help!
I have a couple of girls that are on the over weight side of things but they were abused, starved, neglected, and left for dead, so them being a little chunky now is the least of my worries or theirs! ;)
 
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I care for all the ones in my possession to the best of my ability, and when my ability is not good enough I get help!! ;)
I am hoping that that is what I have just done today...Two years ago I took in an old cat about 15, her owner had developed dementia and couldnt live alone any more. Old cat was matted beyond what I could cut out, so first off took her to the vet to be shaved, then it was back to have the rest of her rotting teeth removed, all but 2, then it was a couple of urinary antibiotic resistant infections, but this week she stopped eating and drinking the normal amount, and was missing the litter box more than usual in spite of my making a step so it would be easier to get in and out. She was pawing her face after she ate for a couple of days, so I was washing her face for her, and when I realized this morning her hind leg was bothering her, she started walking really crooked on her hock I took her to the vet. Abscess or some kind of infection, maybe tumor in her jaw. Maybe a ligament disintegrated in the leg. She had lost a pound since the last time she was in. I decided not to try to treat the problem in her mouth and had her put to sleep on the spot. Too many unfixable things all at once, and the nursing care was more than I thought I could manage. I feel bad but two serious problems would make her life miserable...
 
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Sheepfarmer, I know the questioning, anxiety and grief you have in such a decision. We have 3 cats, one dog, one goose, 2 ducks, 2 horses and a few head of cattle. It's a responsibility you have to enjoy.

When you've done all that can reasonably be done, then do more, the end is painful but at some point inevitable.

For the pets, I always look at it this way: Our pets are God's gift to us, how we treat them is our gift to God!
 

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Over the last 10 days our dog started behaving oddly,mrs figured she was mad at us for banishing her from the bedroom (likes to sleep on the bed, sheds a lot, i had enough) but i started testing her. She's deaf. Went to vet, ears have some sort of infection. May or may not regain hearing. I feel so bad for her,wondering if there is anything we could have done to prevent it. Vet says nope, it happens.
So now i have to get her attention to share our evening snack or give her a dog biscuit. But she sees he collar and leash, knows its time for a wander.

12 years old, and a little bit of reality is kicking in. Not looking forward to her last days.

Sheepfarmer,a friend inherited a cat,the lady that had her wanted cat put down and buried with her. No one to look after cat when she was gone. No, my friend said, cat can live with me. Ashes will follow in due time. Little old lady was thrilled,much so,she left everything to him and his wife. And the ashes made it to the final resting place.
 

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'Cat - thanks for the story.

Part of my job years ago was dealing with some of those complaints. Unfortunately many were founded, which is sad....:(

Was at places where one dog would eat the other tied next to it....100 cats and/or dogs in a mobile home...a "Petting Zoo" gone bad, malnourished cows, horses, even peacocks one time.....

Hell, one time was at a small rendering plant that got abandoned when owner suddenly became terminally ill.....not good, and thankfully was so cold so it didn't smell bad yet. Still remember a 1,800 lb mule hanging on the rail, along with 20 or so other cows and horses......Wasn't a neglect thing, just bad circumstances......

It's heartwarming to see those exceptions. I saw them too, many times. Often similar circumstances to those in the story. Good folks doing good things.

Thanks again.

Sheepfarmer - just take solace in the fact you did the right thing; not for you, but for the animal. While hard, I would have done exactly the same......
 
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Sheepfarmer,
It weighs heavy on our minds and hearts when we have to make the very hard decisions to put them to rest to ease their pain and suffering.
But it is the most noble and humbling task that we as their care givers can do for them.
I have had some really rough times doing this for the ones I've loved, and it never gets easier. :(
So yes you did what was for the best!