I second Magkarl's suggestions.
Sometimes heat on the bosses can also help but you don't want to heat the cylinder rod so much you damage the cylinder packing.
Once you have it out, clean the bosses up and inspect the pin for straightness and pitting. If it is straight and smooth, or made smooth, it should slide back in with no real effort.
It is probably unlikely that the bosses are out of alignment but anything is possible. You could probably (carefully) hone their bores until the pin moved freely, if that were the case. Also, if grease is not getting into the bosses, when you reassemble, use some anti seize compound there.