Well, I see we have a hard-head case here
! Won't listen to one of the most experienced Kubota mechanics on here and won't avail himself of a free WSM.
So, I'm probably wasting my fingers and time here. One of the items in the WSM troubleshooting table for hitch doesn't lift is Relief Valve spring broken. In the diagram below, taken from the WSM, you'll see 2 relief valves. The green one is in the priority/diverter valve body you've been obsessing over.
The blue one is in the 3PH valve body somewhere. Schematically, you can see it would limit the pressure to the 3PH and nothing else. Then looking at the lift cylinder, #9 in the diagram, you'll see that the control valve etc. would prevent back flow from the cylinder, letting it fall, and the relief valve is not involved in that part of the circuit.
Hope that helps.
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