It sounds like you go through an impressive amount of steel for a hobbyist! That's awesome, as is the availability of materials.
I'll give you this as background, not being competitive at all--you'd win that in my book because building your own stuff is way more fun than building someone else's stuff.
It's a little long but sheds a lot of light on why that one OTT member-and maybe others-think Engineers are morons.
AND I think most people can appreciate this having experienced something similar themselves.
I'm also going to use a bunch of stereotypes and generalizations because who doesn't find social conflict entertaining?
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Fabrication in Milwaukee is highly competitive, so "shopping a job" is a given, especially nowadays; years ago companies used to form relationships and as a fabricator I knew what a customers needs were and would catch mistakes and find affordable ways to give them what they wanted.
To "save money" companies "let go" the older, "expensive" engineers
(the people who knew what they were doing), replacing them with middle-managers
("the boss" who thinks he knows what he's doing) and eventually replacing them with "purchasing agents" who in reality are mainly office girls who want to do nothing more than move a stack of papers from one side of their desk (to-do) to the other (done)--they have no idea what they need or what a job is used for, which is an issue, and you're about to see why.
Instead of a customer supplying Fabrication and Machining prints I get machining prints with everything dimensioned to three places so I don't know if they really need +/-0.001", Flat/Parallel within 0.002" over 8 feet or not
(those tolerances over 6" would be fine, but much of this stuff is much, much bigger), and the office girl doesn't know either but she can ask the fresh out of college kid who drew it
(they won't let you talk to "designers" directly because they're saving costs by having the blonde manage the phone), though he has no idea what +/-.001
costs compared to +/-.025 or what tolerances are needed
because the company "let go" everyone with that experience long before the kid was hired.
Since nobody really knows what the thing does or how it should do it, it's all about cost.
If Fabricator #2 can save the customer $1,000 with +/-.030" vs. me at +/-.010" they'll go with #2, because the office girl only knows #2 costs $1,000 less. In her eyes someone above her should have caught the "whatever thing" wouldn't work, or someone after her has to find a way to make it work, she did the paperwork fast and "saved the company money." The end result is fabricators quote as loose as they think they can without looking stupid.
You mention pinching pennies. Much of what we build is around 1,000-5,000#, each, so steel is bought by the semi-load. A sheet of steel is 8' x 20', so 1" thick plate (the thin stuff) is about 6,500#, and steel is priced by cost-per-100-pounds (CWT, cost per hundred weight). With that in mind, 1020 & 1018 HR steel isn't usually stocked at the local service centers, it's A36, and for good reason.
1020/1018 is a virgin steel product
(unlike your first girlfriend, at least by the time you got done with her), and mining in the U.S. is "pretty much banned" because of environmental regulations. Without raw materials we need to recycle existing material, which is what A36 is, recycled "stuff." Push the car, toaster, stapler, pitchfork into the vat, get steel out, that's the concept. It's not stable like virgin steel
(think of that redhead you dated--fun but not exactly "stable" and definitely not "virgin") which is iron ore and a few additives, but it does look about the same from six feet away....
1045 plate is usually stocked up to 1-1/2", sometimes I can get up to 3-3/4", sometimes. The price is about
80% more than A36 (
300% more for the thick stuff), so when Customer #1 is shopping Fabricator #1 against Fabricator #2 do you think she's going to choose the fabricator who will do the job for $35,000 or the fabricator who will do it for $20,000? I'm going to tell you, every single time it's the guy using A36, which is why 1020/1018 is hardly stocked here and 1045 hit-and-miss.
4140 is stocked in major increments, not 1/8" increments, and heavier stuff is regularly on backorder, it's about
5x the price of A36. Free-machining material is about 4x and in 1/8" increments up to 1-1/2", though without the lead content it's not worth it. 12L14 is available in very limited sizes and is spendy, so I can't really use it for building anything sizeable.
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Plastic quality is "somewhat similar," good plastic is expensive, cutting corners saves money and is easy to make in volume for Walmart shoppers.
(And you know it's true because that's why people shop Temu.) And that's why your toaster, car, kitchen utensils, and girlfriend have cheap plastic and don't last long.
Metal lasts longer and is stronger
(like your wife, works hard and not too emotional). BUT, quality costs more, and there's only so much money to go around, which is why we're not all married to supermodels.
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