Update. Well after three sets of seals the leak was actually worse than before, It was about 1/2 gallon every hour. Upon disassembly the nylon o-ring was damaged every time, they were put together lubricated and centered. All surfaces were smooth so I’m not sure what was happening.
Time and money ahead to buy new couplers. Guy I spoke to when ordering said it could have been the outer quick connect side seals(which Kubota doesn’t sa leaking and the fluid was coming out of the back of the coupler.
Bought new couplers and can confirm they are 3/8 British pipe thread. Best I found was about $50 per coupler plus shipping.