That makes sense and I found a drawing of the parts that are supposed to be in the check valve. Will try tomorrow.
Well that "tomorrow" came with COVID so I have been out of order for a few weeks. I finally looked into the check valve and it wasn't there. On removing the cap, there was just a hole. That didn't seem right so I opened the check valve cover for the bucket and there was one there.
So it seems that the 2 "experts" who had worked on the loader valve off the tractor did not reassemble it completely. If that isn't bad enough, Kubota no longer sell that check valve - looking it up finds a substitute which is the complete loader valve for $1100. Yeah, I am going back to the experts, but without a great deal of confidence.
I did find the check valve kit on Ebay for $90 and, unless you tell me to do something else, I will order it. Picture on Ebay shows it in an original Kubota part bag with the correct number YW368-93100 printed on the bag. The bag looks dirty so it's clearly new-old-stock, but if everything is in there it should be good. With most of the bag covered by the part number, name & UPC, only the cap and spring show in the picture.
It seems these parts are likely generic but I have no idea about how to find the generic equivalent.