I convinced my wife a LONG time ago, No Birthday gifts, No Christmas gifts, No anniversary gifts... Yea, I'm a "catch"!!!
If we want or need anything, we just get it... there is NO stress buying anything. I did buy her a cattle guard, (so she didn't have to get out to open the gate
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), a chainsaw that she could start (so I didn't have to start mine for her!!!), and the finishing mower was a gift to her!!! That was so I can finish mowing faster to spend my extra time with her (allowing her to fetch me a beer!!!) I was really thoughtful back in the day.
We are still together and anytime we buy something for ourselves, we "pin" it as a gift to the other...